This is a long weekend. My kids do not have school on Monday. It is Labor Day, the day that we stop and honor all those working in our country. Also, we have cookouts, retail sales, one last trip to the pool, Jerry Lewis’s telethon and other such things.
Tuesday the kids go back to school. And a whole lot of people are debating, discussing and wringing their hands about a speech that President Obama is set to deliver to the children while they are in school. The outcry, outrage and political jabs are increasing and are really pretty intense. I can see why some people feel that this is a horrible idea and I can see why others think this is really no big deal. Other presidents have spoken to kids before. President Bush was in a school reading a book to children the day that our country was attacked by terrorists. I think I remember seeing photos or short video clips of several presidents interacting with school kids.
I am going to share my thoughts on this. I am not going to get into all the politics of this because frankly, I’m not really interested in that. AT ALL!!! My thoughts on this are more of a PARENTING line of thinking.
I think it is a great opportunity for our children to hear our President. He is the leader of our country, like him or hate him, doesn’t change the fact that he is our President. I’ve read and heard from various sources that his speech is going to be more of a story of endurance and sticking with something. “Stay in school. Study hard. Work. Yes, it’s hard, but it is worth it.” That sort of speech. Those are things I already tell my kids. So it wouldn’t be anything new for them.
Here is the other thing. My kids are young and impressionable. So it is my job to protect them from harmful things and to train them to face difficult situations. What better opportunity than this? If they listen to this speech, you can be assured that we will talk about it when they get home from school. Here is why. I want to teach my kids to think for themselves. They need to do that in the security of the home. If we don’t ever have opportunities to discuss things or debate things, they will not have that skill when they leave home. So they hear this speech, and find something really interesting. My hubby and I will ask them WHY they think that is a great thing. Defend your thoughts. We will share our reasons for agreeing or disagreeing with what the President says. I want to have the comfort of knowing that my kids were given room to disagree with me and make up their own minds, but did so with knowledge and thought, NOT just because someone said so. I have met many young adults and adults for that matter that just follow a certain party because that is what someone they deemed important does. So if my favorite celebrity says this is cool.. then it must be cool. I disagree. If something is cool, it should be because I think it is cool, not because someone tells me that I should think it is cool. Can you see what I’m talking about? CHOOSE who you follow and have good reasons. That doesn’t just come naturally. It has to be taught. All that to say, I think this speech will allow for some really good talking points between kids and parents.
I did not vote for President Obama. There are several things I do not agree with him about, but there are a few things I think he does well. I would welcome discussion with my children about this kind speech at school. I would NOT keep my children home that day. If you don’t know what is out there, how can you agree with it or defend against it? Watch, be careful, talk to your kids. Keep the flow of conversation open. THAT is what matters. If you are actively parenting your children, you must give them opportunities to do things that will help them learn. Teach them from home where the environment is controlled instead of sending them into the world (or off to college) without teaching them how to sort through and think things out. It is a life long skill. I would much rather have my kids learn this when they are small instead of waiting till they are 20 when the stakes are much higher.
My youngest daughter will not see this at school. Her principal thought it was much to volatile of a speech and would distract from the classroom learning that needs to happen. I have no idea if my oldest girl will see it or not. I hope so! I remember watching Challenger launch and then… explode when I was in school. I remember watching Presidential speeches from school. I remember learning and talking to my parents about these things. It was good. Parents should be involved in thier kids lives and teach them the skills they need to get through life.
Have a happy day!
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